James Brown was a wicked smart man! I know this song has been redone time and time again by every artist who gets up near the top of the charts... but James Brown deserves the credit. He had the right idea!
"It's a man's world, but it wouldn't be nothing, without a woman or a girl."
I was abruptly woken this morning by someone telling me that they had an 'accident' in my bed, right beside me. I felt bad for Miriam, she was yelling apologies and when I looked at my bed there was only the littlest, tiniest spot of pee. But, Eric was up giving her a shower, and regardless of how big it was, the sheets still needed to be washed.
6:00am... I am never up this early! I know, there are people who wake at this time for work everyday, and there are people who wake up at this time by choice... not me. I am so lucky, my kids usually sleep until 7 or 7:30, and I think that is mostly because I wake them when I get up and get ready for the day.
Anyways - I got off topic there - I decided I wouldn't go back to sleep. How often do I get an hour of quiet in my house, by myself? *Hint: the answer is 'NEVER'.
So my mind is quickly sorting through the regular morning routine, and thinking of all of the things I have been meaning to do when I had a moment to myself.
I could fold laundry (which I really need to do, since today I used the last pair of underwear that was in my drawer)
I could do dishes (ha - that's a joke)
I could sit down and write the blog post I meant to write last week (yes, that's it!)
To my point - here we go-
I think that growing up I always felt moved to do something radical. To stand up for what is right, and to help others see the injustice around us.
I did projects on racism, or equality, or environmental issues and animal rights.
I'm not sure what sparked me then, but it is pretty easy to forget about those things.
It occurred to me that I have forgotten about most of those things because they do not stare me in the face.
I guess I thought that most pharmaceutical/cosmetic companies had stopped testing on animals.
I guess I thought most big corporations were at least trying to lower their carbon footprint.
I guess I thought that everyone sees each other as equals, regardless of their sex or race.
I guess I was wrong.
There was a woman in the UK who, with Lush cosmetics and the humane society, is launching a huge campaign to put an end to cosmetic testing on animals. My first thought is - good for her!
As for woman's rights, its clear to me that I am treated equally in my own home, doesn't that mean it is the same for everyone else? *Hint: the answer is 'NO'
I work with *mostly* women from many many different backgrounds. I specifically work with 2 women, one who is East Indian and one who is West Indian (that is how they explained it to me. They are very similar to me, culturally and by looks, but they stress that things are very different for them) and they are both young ladies in arranged marriages.
Lately I have been thinking that these traditions are simply just traditions. I thought no one really did this anymore! When I asked the ladies if they were happy they both answered with a strong "No!"
They are happy with their kids, they are not happy with their husbands, and both of them tell me that before they had kids they made their husbands promise that they would not set their children up for an arranged marriage.
This seems foreign to me. And the more I think about it, the more I realize that if these 2 women are here in Canada, what happy the hundreds of thousands of woman left back in their home countries.
Here we have laws which needed to be abided by, laws that state that a man cannot beat a woman, laws that give each of these ladies the same rights as their husbands, but 'back home' there are no such rules.
This was just my thoughts... it's a hard thing to imagine for me, here, in Canada, with the husband I chose, with children we were happy to have together and where my opinion is just as valid as his.
This battle has been raging for centuries. How can this constant battle end? *this time I have no answer.. I have no idea what to say...
You see, man made the cars to take us over the road
Man made the trains to carry heavy loads
Man made electric light to take us out of the dark
Man made the boat for the water, like Noah made the ark
This is a man's, a man's, a man's world
But it wouldn't be nothing, nothing without a woman or a girl